Having good emotional health means that you can endure life’s challenges. You can deal with setbacks, and difficulties with a clear head. Your relationships are stronger and overall you feel positive and happy. If you have trouble keeping your feelings and behaviors in check when things go awry, here are 9 ways to improve your emotional health.
“Nothing is worth it if you aren’t happy”
1 – Know What Your Weaknesses Are
Take some time to get to know the things that make you tick. What makes you angry? What makes you sad or feel as though things are helpless. Once you can identify these, then work to strengthen these weaknesses.
2 – Create A Balanced Life
When we spend too much time focusing on one area of our life, other areas suffer. If you want to improve your emotional health, then you must create a balanced life. First you must get clear on what is out of whack. After you figure out where you lack balance, work on improving those areas.
3 – Have Social Connections
As human beings we need to have interaction with others. I’m a very independent person and if you are as well, this can be hard to get yourself out there and be social. But you must. Surround yourself with positive, like-minded people. Do not hang around negative people or those that put you down.
4 – Exercise
We often think that exercise only improves your physical body, but it also improves your emotional health. When you start feeling better about your health, that carries over to other areas of your life such as your outlook on life, confidence, and self-esteem. Exercise can also release “feel good” hormones in the body causing an increase in your mood. Try to do something active every day.
5 – Find Your Life Purpose
Yes this is a biggie and many people never find theirs. It’s perfectly fine if you have no idea what you are supposed to be doing in life. There are plenty of resources to help you discover your life purpose, but ultimately it is a journey you must continue to take if you want to improve your emotional health.
6 – Get Plenty Of Rest
I know that when I don’t get enough sleep, I’m very grumpy. Sometimes I overreact to things and have a tendency to think negatively. When my wife doesn’t get much sleep she is very emotional. Things bother her or stress her out more than they should. Both of these reactions are not uncommon. It could affect your emotional health as well.
7 – Work On Your Self-Improvement
Working on your self-improvement is one of the best ways to improve your emotional health. Seeking to improve who you are all the way around helps you understand yourself and how you tick. Things start to become clear and you start seeing ways out of your issues. It’s very uplifting! Read self-improvement blogs every day or listen to a great podcast. Keep working on being better every day.
8 – Learn To Say No
How much of your emotional health is affected by your inability to say “No”? Saying “Yes” to everything just causes stress and frustration because you’ll end up extending yourself too much. It’s okay to do for others but doing too much is bad for you emotionally. You should start focusing on taking care of you and doing things you want to do. Make this a year of “No”.
9 – Meditate
Meditation relieves stress, helps you stay focused, and re-energizes your mind. These are only a few benefits of meditation, but there are many more that will improve your emotional health. Try to meditate every day starting out with baby steps. Start with 5 minutes a day and then move on from there.
You should seek to improve your emotional health just as you do other areas of your life. Try these 9 strategies and start gaining control over your actions, feelings, and thoughts.
What do you do when you start feeling out of control?